Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Who do you think you are?


In life, we always come up in a certain situation that we need to make a decisive decision. A firm one that we need to weigh everything in order not to get hurt people whom might get affected by our decisions. Handling twenty (20) techie office personnel, 85% percent of them is dominated by male staff, a huge responsibility on my part as a leader. A crucial task that transform a shy-weaken woman into a male dominant personality.

There are instances that put me in a situation wherein i need to be tough in my command and approach. No one should be left with special favors as it will lead to a much deeper office problem. I almost adapt the "male dominant" style when it comes to dealing with them in order to flaunt my authority towards the situation. But its just a flaunt. To complicate things more, i am now on the midst of taking a crucial decision of firing-out two of my office staff. Its not an easy decision for me but as i weigh things, its the best way to help them develop their character towards work. Sometimes they need to savor the taste of a bitter-sweet result of their own work performance. I have no other way but to be tough as i get my strength of character with that kind of self-portrayal.

I think i am starting to develop unhealthy self-image. But when no one is around and i am all by myself..I'm just a simple woman who have passion for baking and cooking. Sounds ironic for those who didn't know me personally but this is just the real me.

3 comments:

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no name said...

nice share you have here....all about human are never end....let me think bout my self...who am i????
nice post...have nice day, wish we are best

My-Alter-Ego said...

hi sis.. i can relate to this.. and now i am at the point of thinking whether i still want to remain in the situation..

i hope u can visit my other blogs too -
www.reyapot.com
www.cahloy.com

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