Wednesday, August 11, 2010

HOW BITTERNESS AND ENVY AFFECTS A PERSON’S WORK ATTITUDE?

Working on a group of people whether in a corporate world or government service entails a lot of sacrifice and challenges especially on my part as I am a neophyte. Dealing with people who has negative attitude towards the people he or she works with always serves to be the source of troubles in any organization.

Sometimes proving our rights to a certain issues makes us feel powerful and believed that we are always in a right position. We didn’t care of the injuring words we kept on throwing to whom we thought our enemy.  The question is, are they really your enemy? Or is it yourself whom reflects as your number one enemy? Or worst you thought you are being mistreated as your heart is full of bitterness and envy?

Just want to get a short quote of Joel Osteen article about the topic “Don’t Let Bitterness Take Root “ from the author of the book, Your Best Life Now, 7 Steps to Living At Your Full Potential .“People who harbor anger often don’t realize they poisoning their own lives. When we don’t forgive, we’re not hurting the other person. We’re not hurting the company that did us wrong. We’re not hurting God. We’re only hurting ourselves.

Don’t let bitterness and envy take root of your life. I almost came to this point in my life that I don’t even want to see nor hear names of person who hurt me emotionally. However, as years passed by, I learn to forgive them by whispering a short wish every time they’re names where being mentioned Wish that may we both see from the different perspective the essence of life’s trial.  Why we cross and leave separate ways at the same time.  It’s my own way to forgive them and myself as well.

Let the will of God takes its course. Now that I am in a government service, I do try my best to be strong to all the challenges that comes my way. To my detractors, I challenge them to keep on throwing the stone on my way as I will use them as my laddering steps towards the organization’s success.

3 comments:

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Toby said...

Bitterness and anger are really affecting more the person holding it...then slowly creep in our relationship to others.

Though it is hard, we have to learn to forgive and let go. Letting go is the best solution to the baggage we are carrying around.

Tom
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