Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Work And Life Balance


Did You Take A Breather Today?

If there were a trial court of justice that hears people’s life’s’ practices and which would somehow ask me if I was able to apply these best practices in my life, I would plead “guilty”. 

Just last week, I wasn’t spared by the strong onslaught of the influenza virus. This despite of my flu immunization vaccine. The spread of strong influenza triggered an asthma attack. It’s a fact that eating healthy foods is not enough to maintain a healthy immune system. When time permits, I prepared my own packed of food for lunch and dinner at home. This should be balanced with physical and mental relaxation. I have no time for YOGA exercise. I’m a very stubborn person when it comes to medication. That’s why the moment I stepped into the clinic of my pulmonary physician, she asked right away what treatment I would prefer --- a weeklong rest at home, or hospital confinement? It meant my physical condition that time would no longer be improved by my self-medication practice. So, I had no choice but to take a weeklong sick leave from work. 





Lesson learned: Work Hard but Work Smart. Listen to your body so you know when to stop. Ok, I actually know all these lessons, I just ignored them. I’m trying to slow down and take everything in moderation. However, just like the revolutionary face of technology, which is the main mission of my department, as a leader it taught me to think and mobilize my people with precision. My month of August was full of appointments that I only had five days of stay in my office to oversee the work and monitor the deadlines of my staff. It even came to a point that I had to cancel sets of scheduled meetings due to conflicts.


That’s why I grabbed the opportunity to take some time off with my college mates. They also craved to breathe some fresh air, given the chance, due to their weeklong and exhausting teaching workload. This was also our way to lift and boost the spirit of one of our OFW male classmates who suffered a leg amputation because of untreated diabetes. We wanted him to see the beauty of life despite his present circumstances.  

Lesson Learned: Life is Short. Spend It with People Who Make You Laugh and Feel Loved. When we hit the final leg of our journey, one thing is sure: we cannot bring the possessions we have in this world to our tomb. We’re just merely passing by. That is why we should always try to pause and create memories with loved ones and friends. 


My phone has been a black hole of pictures and memories. I need more space, too, so I dump all of them in my blog.




















































Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Life Is A Mission And Not A Career


"Not until we find the reason why we serve, our life has no substance"

It’s been two decade when we were finally able to set up a Class Reunion for Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education, BSED Batch ’96. It’s a day full of throwbacks and memories and non-stop story telling about failures and successes in life. At first, I wasn’t able to catch up and get into the core of the discussions as most of them are actively on the field of teaching. I was the only one who works in the local government setting, the one with just a short stint in teaching. As I listened to their individual life stories and struggles both personal and work related, I couldn’t help but wonder and ask myself: What if I pursued teaching as my career? Could I become one of them? Maybe become a Master Teacher, or a School Principal perhaps? Or just an ordinary, boring and nerdy classroom teacher who wears thick eyeglasses and below-the-knee, pencil-cut skirt uniform. I can’t picture myself wearing that fashion style! Hehehe I’m a jeans and shirt kind of person. I’m just thankful that I was able to get myself out of the old school concept that if you’re a teacher you should be in school! Maybe this principle is not applicable to all, especially to a goal-driven woman like me who doesn’t want a very routinely kind of work. I don’t think I have enough patience now in dealing with secondary students and their angst! We might possibly clash in some aspect. The type of student discipline nowadays is a big challenge to all practicing teachers. I admit that I have short tolerance for students’ behaviors and whims because I grew up in a family environment where eye-to-eye contact with my parents is enough to compose myself and behave. However, I honestly admire all my batch mates. Hat off to them, as they’re able to balance career and family life. I just hope that it is still not too late for me to realize the value and true essence of being a woman. So hold me God. 

How about you, have you known already the purpose of your existence? Then what is your life’s mission? 


With my BFFs youngest daughter! My friend wasn't able to finish her study then but she had this pretty little lady! :-)
One of my closest friend during my college days. I'm proud of this woman, she is now a certified School Principal! Aim high! :-)
Our Kuya's who always beside me during our stressful practice teaching. 


Ang Tatlong Bibe..hahaha!







The wacky secondary teachers of the Province of Bataan! I'm proud of you all guys! :-)

What will be the next dance step Ma'am Akit?! Teachers can play like a student sometimes! haha


The trying hard singers of our batch! :-)
Can't help but laugh out loud here! lol
The revelation of our true to life story. :-)

Meetings of batch '96 in preparation for the 51st Grand Alumni Homecoming on December


Stress free weekend with this group of people.














Thursday, July 21, 2016

Life Is A Gift

“Take Time To Do What Makes Your Soul Happy”.

As I step on to another year of life, I realize that time really flies so fast that without you knowing it, another patch of growing gray locks is covering your scalp. I’m a self-confessed blogger, and online journaling serves as my distress board and relief for my jumbled, unspoken thoughts and gnawing worries. I'm starting the habit of expressing myself in the blank page and believing that at the end of my writings is a positive end-result. The feeling of self-fulfillment as I express and understand myself more deeply is motivating. 

As the Lord rewards me with another year of life, I’m now developing the sensibility to find ways on how to maximize my time and improve myself. God is too generous to put this gift to waste. And I’m really grateful to Him. For the past year, I was able to face my fear of independence. Though the process is quite hard, yet it’s rewarding. I'm just thankful to my family and BFFs who supported and guided me in trying times. I just want to share the greatest lesson I learned from it- that nothing is complicated and impossible if you surrender everything to HIM. In one of my coffee-talks with my father, talking about life in general, he reminded me about a certain line in the bible that says “No One Should Live Only For Oneself”. I am just so thankful that he gave me his blessings to flap my wings and fly on my own. He knows by heart the sincerity of my intention more than anything else. And I love and respect him more for that.

When the skies are grey, and I’m tired of everything, I spend time with myself. Music and inspirational books are enough companion, at least for that moment of reflection. For me, moments of solitude are very important. Because I believe happy and peaceful hearts are way, way better than angry hearts. Throw happiness instead of anger. 

I should train my mind to see the good in every situation. Most specially in dealing with every persons' individuality. That is why, I always bear in mind, that our standing in society is defined by how we treat people around us. We're all living in an imperfect world without imperfection, neither you nor I would exist. What is important is, as a normal individual you know how to acknowledge your own flaws. Acknowledging your own weakness doesn’t make you less a person. It’s just a matter of uniting yourself to others and being flexible in situations to achieve peace and harmony. 

This is my way to understand the essence of my toil and its innate, undesirable effects on my sanity- as if I’m always standing between two colliding rocks. I learned that at the end of the day, all things should pass. Just do your best and stand for your principle. As long as you know where you stand, just don’t cross the border line.I think you're on the right track. And one more thing is that as an ordinary government employee, it is best to reap the value of your hard work by serving the underserved far from the limelight. It is best to master the art of sharing compassion and believing that, "You can't change how people feel about you, so don't try. Just master your craft and be happy". I just keep reminding myself not to miss any chance to be with somebody great, or with someone who can tolerate my insanity once the situation leads me, too. Live in the present and make it beautiful, Aja!

Photos below was taken during the City’s Stakeholders’ Night at Plaza Hotel in June 27, 2016. An evening of thanksgiving for the city government's community counterparts. The event was attended by private organizations that actively worked for the success of the city's strategic reforms lead by our former City Mayor now 2nd District-Congressman Joet S. Garcia.  


























Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Padre Pio Shrine: Batangas City